This Is Not a Brand. It’s a Room.
A slow living experiment in writing, ritual, and choosing presence over performance
I’ll admit that I’ve spent an embarassingly too-long time chasing a presence that was never meant to suit me as an individual, especially as a mother… I tried, inconsistently while riding along the waves of my nervous system, to force a fit that wasn’t sustainable or comfortable. I’ve chased big, fast platforms, fleeting algorithymic alignment, expensive tech, and the exhaustion of always staying “on” and everywhere.
I truly don’t want to live there anymore.
I am firmly turning away from a world full of loud timelines and the constant need for validation that my expression is worthy of vanity metrics. I’m passing up the path of branding and optimizing every aspect of myself to a maximum output tracked on a Notion dashboard. I’m letting go of seeking popular relevance and proof that I am doing something worth noticing.
Instead, I’m rebranding my publication and building The Inhabitable right here.
According to my new About page, this emerging project is my personal outlet and sacred landing space for slow living and writing... For ideas and reflection that don’t need a takeaway. For the kind of real inner life that can’t thrive in constant motion.
My goal was to establish my corner of the Internet to feel like a curated living room with closed doors you open by intentional choice instead of a performance on a busy stage. And I want this room this room to have weight to it. I wanted it to be somewhere that you enjoy visiting because there’s no need to Follow or Like yourself into approval. And I wanted here to be somewhere that doesn’t demand that I perform my healing or package my humanity for an audience.
Here, you can now expect:
Personal essays about caregiving, identity, and staying human
Gentle rituals and grounding practices you can actually use
Writing that values presence over productivity
A slower rhythm — letters sent when they’re ready, not when they’re demanded
The belief behind my publication and it’s name is that your life can be, and should be, inhabitable itself. I believe and KNOW that all of our inner lives deserve a measure of care, attention, and meaning.
This is becoming more and more important today.
There is currently an active mass return to what is authentic and personable… People are seeking to answer to their need for tangible rituals again. Quiet routines. We’re all flocking to spaces that can hold without developing leaks: spaces that fulfill instead of drain from us.
The solution I offer in answer to this is The Inhabitable.
If this sounds like your kind of space, subscribe and join me.
The door is open. You’re welcome to come in, sit down, and stay awhile.
The Inhabitable is more than an email newsletter about parenting special needs and neurodivergent children; it’s a mom’s real life personal journal and a sanctuary for other mothers and women inhabiting their lives again after Survival Mode. Through honest essays, gentle prompts, and an intentional community, you’ll rediscover your creativity, identity, and inner calm.
If you’re a mother or caregiver raising a neurodivergent child and feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or unseen, UnCommon Momma was created specifically for you. This private membership community focuses on supporting your healing, growth, and wellbeing in a world that often overlooks your needs.
What you’ll find inside:
Peer support from others who truly understand your experience
Guided self-care practices and wellness resources
Access to a private podcast and live community gatherings
A safe space where your identity and needs matter
There’s a Forever Free tier to dip your toe into at absolutely no risk because everyone deserves to belong. Click here to join us ↓
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I collaborate with partners aligned with: motherhood, mental health, wellness, self-care, self-growth, mindfulness, creativity, calm productivity, authentic living, and life design.
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